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    April

    Bl**dy FREEZING… well maybe not… but cold!!! Very Cold – its making me kinda garden crazy – I want to get my stuff out out out – especially things like my sweet peas – but as we say in the Cricket World – kid you can’t change the weather… So we start the month actually taking as much advantage as possible from sunshine and warmth that we do get and trying to pot up somethings – I think my focus is actually going to have to be these sweet peas and planting the rest of my seeds. Below is direct from budtoseed website – I just keep re-reading it –…

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    Mid March update

    So mid March – how’s it all going out there? I am trying not to get overwhelmed by what I have sown already and where I am going to put them all… I have decided (after much deliberation… and discussion and stress ) that I am going to grow most of my seeds babies up into pots – we decided that this actually is going to work much better for me this year giving me versatility. I will put some in the garden but just be putting them in rather than stressing about where they can go for cutting. Quick update (22/03/21) as to what I might autumn sow this…

  • About,  Bulbs,  Corms,  life,  Me,  Planting,  Seeds

    March Hello

    So, sow, sew… All together now – March is here – I always find the end the month and beginning of a new one a little strange and especially during this year of COVID (yes I know we all want out of this state we are in but for me just rushing the seasons / months / festivals doesn’t help) as I am a worrier and I want time to slow down not speed up and new months tend to make me stress as I see more the time is flying by- I know look forward but… hey we are who we are. As I said I am natural stresser…

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    Move 2020

    This is a hard post to write even now as to be honest I am still a little very annoyed about the whole thing… So this will be fairly brief (clearly on the edit it isn’t brief who was I kidding… it is only on here as it kinda – well definitely does have bearing on the journey however not essential reading!). After being led to believe that we could stay – live where we were we were given 3 months notice – they wanted / needed to sell the property ASAP… given the climate EG Covid it turned out they couldn’t actually give us notice but I just wanted…

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    About Me General

    Hello welcome to Cactus Girl as this space is called at the moment – this is a project in progress – I chose this name for a blog site many moons ago nothing todo with planting or gardening or Cactus for that matter – I was having a life melt down (I mean like Pre-COVID who could imagine you would!?!) and crying to my husband (crying is a huge part of my life) and saying I just feel so bloody prickly like a… like a… and he said Cactus… me – yeah I guess so… more LOTS more tears… possibly wailing… on my part We decided it maybe cathartic if…